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Thursday, November 24, 2011

Couch Potato WordArt

Happy Thanksgiving, my friends!!! Well, it's later here than I'd originally planned - hehe :) My day was jam packed full of stuff. Sometimes it's good to keep your mind off of stuff. Like the fact that a major part of your family is gone. And a major holiday is quickly approaching.... But we don't talk about such things....

I woke up around 7:30am, and started working on a Thanksgiving menu and shopping list. And Joe was the only one awake. So he was gonna be my Walmart shopping buddy. Works for me :) He and I got ready, made sure Tom was awake, and we headed out.

We took the Saturn, and headed out. And thank goodness, it wasn't crowded! Yet. I'm sure that it would pick up. But the 8-9 am hour was just fine. We shopped and grabbed all the food items that we needed, then paid, and headed home. It was a fun little shopping excursion. Thanks, Joe, for keeping me company!

And off to the house we headed. We got all the food put away, and did a few chores. Then got the kids ready for the zoo. We were gonna meet Kari and Veronica there at 11. But I wanted to go to Fallas first, and see if they had an area rug first. So we got all changed and loaded up in the truck and I checked my wallet for my zoo pass. No where to be found. Crap. It was gone.

I think I may have donated it with my vest thing I was wearing last zoo trip. Dang! And the kids didn't wanna go bad enough to get another pass. Sigh. So Jake and Tom went back inside the house, and Joe and Jim and Eme and I went to Fallas. I got some more garland and a tree skirt. But no rug.

Big Lots next. They had a rug that I liked. And a few other things. And we headed home. I got these as a reward for Jake. When he cleans my truck, he gets them. Wash, and clean out the inside, plus vacuum.


And I found this at Big Lots, and LOVE the print!
We were home for a short while before Kari texted and said that they were done with the zoo, and headed over to McDonalds. And that we should join them. Perfect! We loaded up in the truck, and headed across town to McDonalds. I let each kid had $3, and the chose wisely. hehe. I'm SO my mother's child. ha!
I've got my cool red hat on today :)

Josephine and Kari
We let the kids play for a while to blow off some steam, then we headed back home. And it was a long day at the house. ha!

I boilded up 3 dozen eggs for Deviled eggs tomorrow :)
I baked 2 pumpkin pies, 1 apple blueberry pie, and 1 pecan pie. The pecan kinda burnt, but I'm sure that the under part is yummy!
In between cooking and cleaning and such, the kids and I got the Christmas tree down, and set it up. SUCH a great time of the year! I just like the season :)
I'd gotten spring form pans for my birthday last year, and have never used them. So I finally broke them out, and used the 9 inch one tonight! I made a homemade cheesecake! Oh yeah!!! baked it in the oven and everything :) I'm excited to see how it turns out.


That's what they're supposed to look like, right? Please say yet. LOL! Anyway, I cleaned and baked and baked and cleaned and then rested. Then hopped up and did it some more. It's now midnight, and I'm sleepy. The kids are all in bed. Who know's how many phone things I've missed. It's been on vibrate. And before that, we were using it on Pandora for music. Sorry, outside world. I wasn't staying in constant contact. hehe :) OK, now I think I'm falling alseep and am not making sleep. I mean sense... hehe. And getting goofy, apparently. Gotta stop while I'm ahead...

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LOL! It's a man thing, huh? My boys do this, too! Great layout, Sharon! thanks!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

2 Peas in a Pod



Day 2 of Thanksgiving break. I woke up at 9am. And Captain America was on Facebook chat! I typed with him for a bit, then got on Skype. And was on Skype with him until the time to go to the movies at 11:25! Yeah, my morning disappeared! Needless to say, I went to the movies in the same clothes from yesterday! hehe :) Somedays are like that, right?

Luckily the kids were all dressed and ready to go when I got done walking with my sweetheart. We loaded up and headed to the movies. We were going to the "Rise of the Planet of the Apes".

I left Tom in line for the tickets with money, and I got in line for the popcorn and drinks and hot dogs. Multi-tasking works best, you know :) We were done at about the same time. And were only a few minutes late for the movie. Luckily, we'd seen the movie before. GREAT movie, by the way.

Our friends, Veronica and her 4 kids, and Kari and kids were there. It's great to have friends, you know :) After the movie, we chatted outside in the sunshine for a while, then all headed out to our various activities. I took the kids to big lots to see about that elusive record player. Kari had found one yesterday at the Mesa Big Lots. But this one was sold out too. Drats! I did find some outdoors Christmas decorations, though. Apparently the Mesa Big Lots is the only one in town that has the record player. I wonder if it still has any....

Poor Tom was devastated. I'm not really sure why, though. He had his heart set on going across the street to Goodwill and buying a record and playing it on the record player.... Hum... Oh well. On to the next store. We went to the Dollar Tree, and I got some bread, and a few Christmas things. And managed to get all of the "Mom, can I have this" crap out of the cart before I got to the register. I hate it how they throw stuff in there when I'm not looking. Especially Jim. A Snickers bar ended up in the cart and I almost paid for it. Caught it at the last second. Tricky. Very sly, Jim... I'm watching you....

And we headed home. I texted Jake and had him come home, and we all did chores. It took some poking and prodding, but they got done. Jake thought he was gonna get off easy, but I made him do the backyard well. And he really did. And I went and supervised, and the backyard got done REALLY well. 3 bags of trash later, and the backyard is looking might fine!!! Captain America, you would be proud of your oldest son's effort!!!

And speaking of my oldest son, those new meds are fantabulous. He really is a changed child. He seems to be less of the goofy child that he was before, and more of a normal teenage boy. More social. Wants to hang with people his own age. And his happy. And joking around. I'm enjoying it, actually. And he's able to be reasoned with. That's a new one for me. A shock, actually! But a pleasant one! hehe.

Anyway, after the chores were done, I went outside and set up some Christmas lights. Tom and Joe and Jim helped a little bit. It was kinda fun :) My kids were finally done with what they had to do, and had earned some free time. The TV and electronic had been off all break long. Amanda texted, and asked if I wanted to make a Walmart run with her. She hadn't left the house yet today. Sounded like a fun trip to me!

I left Tom in charge, and headed out with Amanda. We went to the "Jaurez Walmart" because it was closest. And dang, it was packed. You could tell it was close to Thanksgiving. Which reminds me, I sure do need to make my Thanksgiving dinner and shopping list. I know, slacker me. It's getting close, and I still haven't done it....

We walked around, and she got the few things that she needed. But mostly we just wandered.
She price matched these veggies at $0.49 a can, and had buy 4 and get $1.00 off coupons. She had 11 coupons! Nice, huh???
Um, yeah, interesting game???
Bike helmet???
Is this bow just for me?
Man or woman??? hehe :)
We wandered around Walmart for a bit longer, then went to pay. And headed home. And stopped by Taco Bell for a Beefy Cheesey nasty and a soda before heading back through the gate.

My kids were doing just fine when I got home, watching TV and playing computers. And Joe was sound asleep on the couch. hehe. I put up the last of the new outside Christmas decorations, and took a final picture. What do you think??? Aren't they pretty???
I cleaned up a little bit, then sat down to yesterday blog. Then started on today's blog. And now I'm feeling my headache coming back. I should take some meds and go to bed. Or maybe I'll just take a sleeping pill and go to bed. I'm not sure. I'm super sleepy, though. It's almost 11pm. I wonder what would help me feel the best in the morning? A super good nights rest, or some meds?....

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Ha! Such funny faces! This little girl TOTALLY looks like my sisters kids!!! hehe. You sure she's not related to me???


Tuesday, November 22, 2011

The Whole Enchilada

Hey girls... Yeah, this one is late. I woke up on Monday morning, after getting to sleep in for a bit. I didn't have to be anywhere until around 11. But wanted to go to the Dollar Tree and the game store for Jake early. So around 8:30 or 9 we started getting ready. And yeah, we were running a bit behind. But it was ok.

We cleaned up after ourselves, so the house stayed mostly clean. Which is good! Since Jake and Justin had put in SO much time and effort the day before! And it looked SO good :) I started some crock pot rotissarie chicken, and cooked up a pot of pasta with sausage. And we got the kids ready, and we all headed out to the stores.

I picked up Amanda and Austin, and we dropped off Jake and Tom at Game Stop. Then we went to the Commissary. We got some drinks and some disposable forks. And some chips and some cookies. We paid, picked up the boys, and nixed the Dollar Tree stop. Commissary works just as good! And off to the Park we headed! We were a bite late, but still met up with our friends. Sorry, Ms Kari, so leaving you hangin'... Don't hate us too much. hehe.

We hung out and had a grand time with the kids. Kim and her kids eventually showed up too. It was a pretty good time. The weather wasn't fantastic, but the sun did come out a few times. The kids played, the moms chatted, and the kids burned off a lot of energy. Perfect! The moms all had shopping errands to run, so after a few hours, we went our separate ways. Justin and Jake (fused at the hip these days!) wanted to go to the Youth Center, so I volunteered to take them. I didn't have enough seats, though, so Kari said that she'd take Joe with her.

And off we all went. First stop, though, Dollar Tree on Mesa. The biggest one in Town. hehe. It was an exciting trip. 4 moms, 13 kids (11 boys and 2 girls, 4 of which have special needs....) We only pretended that we didn't know the kids a few times. hehe.

Amanda and I dropped Justin and Jake off at the youth center, then dropped Tom and Eme off at home. Tom totally could have been dropped off at the youth center, but he hadn't cleaned his room yet. He informed me that I was ruining his Thanksgiving break. Last I checked, I didn't mess up his room.... We headed to Amandas house with the little boys, and loaded up her broken chairs from Ashley furniture, and returned them to the store.

I waited in the truck with the boys while she dealt with them, and they came and got the chairs. Then we went to Big Lots. We'd seen that they had a 5 in 1 Record player on sale for $59. Record player, MP3 player, Cassette player, radio, CD player. Sounded pretty cool. Um, yeah, they were sold out. Drat! I was looking forward to showing the kids what records and tapes were! hehe :) And guess who we ran into??? KIM!!! Clear across town! What are the odds??? hehe :)

We got a few christmas decoration things, then headed to Target. We looked around for a little while, then headed home. My head was starting to hurt. Migraine time for me. Oh darn! We put the stuff away, and I had the kids work on their chores some more. And get their rooms clean.

Kim had texted and said that Scotty had had a melt down while Amanda and I were at Target, so when she offered me some cereal that her kids didn't want, I jumped at the opportunity to come over and get it. I needed to check on my friend and make sure that things were ok.

She was a little rattled, but otherwise ok. I totally know the feeling. I offered to keep the little boys so that she and her hubby and Scotty could go to dinner. So Cory and Austin came to play with my kids for a few hours. They had a TON of fun running around my house with my kids. Literally. Running laps around my house. LOL.

I had taken some migraine meds, and I laid down on my couch in my room with my neck massager for a while. I helped a little, but not enough. I decided that it was probably a hormonal headache. Which sucked, because there wasn't really anything that I could really do for it... besides medicate the crap out of myself. hehe. Bring it on!

The kids played nicely for a few hours, and Kim and hubby came back, bringing a pizza for my crew. Awe, SO sweet! At around 8:45pm, my kids all were ready for bed, and Jake was spending the night at Justins house again. And I was going to the movies with the girls. We were going to see "The Help". But my head was killing me. So I took some of everything, put the kids to bed, and headed out. Kari was driving, don't worry. hehe. Kari and Kim and me and Veronica went. It was a good time! About 1/2 way through the movie, the meds kicked in, and I didn't feel a thing. LOL :)

I got home, and was exhausted! I remember crawling into bed with my laptop and my glasses and my clothes on. And laying down, and opening the laptop up, and realizing that I needed to make up a preview for the wordart. And "resting" my eyes while photoshop opened. And then it was 3am. And I couldn't for the life of me think of how to change the resolution from 300 dpi to 72dpi. I've only done it for the past almost 4 years. But I couldn't remember how to do it a 4am. hehe. So I went back to sleep. LOL. So yeah. That's why there was no blog. And why it's here now.... Blame it on the migraine :)

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Nice one, Sharon! Great family picture and great family layout!!!

Monday, November 21, 2011

Pickle

OK, SO good to be back home! With my own internet! That actually works. hehe. But girls weekend away was FANTABULOUS! Just what I needed! Thanks, friends! I came back re-charged and ready for Thanskgiving vacation with my kiddos :)

So Saturday morning, I wake up bright and early at 7am. And I hop in the shower and get all ready. I'd bought a new snuggle blankie, so I gave my old (and non soft one (remember, it got seeds and pokies and junk in it)) to Jake. He was SO excited about it.
I got myself all packed up, and went to see if the kids were all packed up. Joe and Jim were ALL packed up, AND they had their room mostly cleaned. Nice. I told them that the room had to be mostly cleaned before they went to Cory's house. Good deal! Of course, in the 3 hours before I left for Girls Weekend, they proceeded to mess it up again, but it's baby steps, right?

I got all the kids ready for the weekend bit by bit. Eme and Tom were the first to leave. Eme headed on over to Rebecca's house at 8:30am. Rebecca is her coach for Basketball, and she was gonna drop her off at Crystal's house after the game. She's staying with Crystal for the weekend. My friends rock, you know!

And I loaded up Tom and Joe and Jim at 8:30am, and we headed to Logan Gym to drop off Tom for his game. Kim's hubby was gonna come and pick Tom up after his game. We dropped Tom off, and headed back to post.

I got my bags all packed, and made sure that Jim was dressed the right way. He had on a Jammie shirt for his regular shirt. Oops. Fixed that, checked his bags, and made sure that Jake was all set for Kari's Brian's house. Joe said that he had packed a picture of Jesus and his scriptures. Who can tell a kid no to that! hehe. That's not over packing, that's just freakin' adorable!!! :)

Around 9:45am, Jake and Joe and Jim and I walked over to Ms Kim's house with our stuff (minus Jake's stuff). Jake wanted to see us off. And he wanted to say hi to Scotty. Joe and Jim were so excited they could hardly contain themselves. Cory's house is kinda the most exciting place in the world to them. ROFL!

We walked on over, and Kim was in the process of loading the SUV. I added mine to the mix, and we got the little boys situated. Then we were off! First stop, Amanda's house to pick up her and Austin.

Then Maggie's house to pick up Maggie and Hannah and Jake. Then Kari's house to pick up Kari. And we were a full house!!! All 8 seats were filled up! And we were on the road, traveling 4 hours up the road to Albuquerque! Lets get this show on the road!!! hehe :)

About 30 minutes down the road, we were briefly stopped by boarder patrol at a check point to make sure we were all American Citizens. Yup, all legals here!
Have you tried these???? They're freakin' Awesome!!!
Hannah

Hi!

Wishing it were DDP, but diet coke is gonna have to do :) But now I have to PEE!
Wait~ Kim turned into Amanda!! hehe :)
After driving forever and forever and forever, we finally got to the outskirts of Albuquerque and to Amanda's parents house. They were gonna watch the Kids for us. We hung at her parents house for a bit, though. We got the tour, and even got to see the deer hanging in the garage!
And look! They had trees AND leaves!!! I call this photo, "Leaves in crotches..."
Me in a tree


Amanda helped her mom get ready for an evening function, and the girls and I ran to Walmart. We'd hired a babysitter to come for the evening, and then we were gonna head on up to the Hotel. And after her parents got done with their event, the babysitter was gonna go home and her parents were gonna take over with the babysitting responsibilities. Sometimes it WOuLD be nice to have family close, I think. hehe.

I love you, Barney...
I thought this hat would be PERFECT for the bus stop. And it's SO soft! Just like my blankie. I'll have to be careful not to pet myself too much, though...
We grabbed a few more things at Walmart, and headed back. Amanda's parents had left, the babysitter had things under control, so we picked up Amanda, and headed to the Hard Rock Hotel. We parked, grabbed our suit cases, and headed up to the hotel. It's SO cool there! We already had our room keys, so we headed on in. 4th floor! WE had 2 rooms next to each other, but not adjoining, unfortunately.

Amanda and Maggie were in one room, and Kari and I and Kim were in the other. And we had SUCH a great time! We got changed into dinner clothes, and went to check out the hotel. And had dinner downstairs in one of the restaurants. SUPER yummy!





This one was mine. Philly Cheesesteak. Oh yeah!

Don't you just LOVE my new red hat!??
I don't drink, never have, but I thought that their lamp thingy display was pretty impressive :)
We walked around for a bit more, then headed upstairs real quick. And goofed around for a while. And took some pictures. ROFL! We're such dorks! LOL!




Then back downstairs to check out the casino. The girls discovered that if you sign up for some Casino card, that you get $25 worth of free money. So they all signed up. Me? Um, yeah, gambling is not my thing. So I just watched. And took pictures. I was the photographer for the night. And there was free Diet Coke on tap, so I "drank". hehe. Designated Drinker? ROFL! Did I feel left out? Absolutely not. Did I feel like I was missing out on something? Nope. I didn't understand how the games worked anyway. Gambling has never appealed to me. You "waste" money. Nope. Not for me... hehe.

It was super smokey in there, and we came out smelling like an ashtray. That was kind nasty. Not my kind of place. But it was kinda fun hanging with the girls. Thanks for the fun evening, you guys!



Kim ended up playing some Monkey game, and won $40. And cashed out. She was happy to leave with some cash in hand. hehe.
I left with Coke in hand. Does that count? ha!


I think it was around midnight when we finally headed to the room. We'd gone to the club to see how the dance scene was, and yeah, not happening. Maybe we were too old. Who knows. Kim was feeling a bit sick, and I needed to blog. Yeah, I think we were the old ones. ROFL!

The other girls went back down for a bit for some more soda and to check something else out, and we ended up chatting while I worked on a few things and she took some meds. Which is when I found out that the internet was CRAPPY. No blogging for me. I was gonna be lucky to even host the wordart. Le Sigh...

When the girls came back, we messed around for a bit longer. I tried some more to get the internet faster, and Kim tried to go to sleep. And we weren't making it easy on her. LOL. Amanda and Maggie were messing around on the interent (which was moving a tad faster for them), and Kari was reading. I think it was 1am before we finally went to sleep.

I didn't sleep very good in the night. I am used to hearing the fan all night long. It drowns out all the little noises. I use it as a noise machine. And yeah, I didn't have it. So I heard all the little noises, and they kept me up. Someone rolling over. Someone snoring. Someone getting up. A door shutting. A door opening. Someone coughing. Someone upstairs flushing. Sigh. Not so good.

And then, I heard Kim get up and start rustling through bags. Hmmm, interesting. And it kept going on and going on. I couldn't figure out what she was doing. I was still kinda asleep. Then I thought maybe I heard her crying. But I wasn't sure. I finally woke up enough to go and check it out. Yup, crying.

I asked what was wrong, and she said she'd lost her meds. He was in obvious pain. Remember, she's the friend who'd broke her back in the army YEARS ago. Kari was awake by now too (it was 8:30am) and we turned on the light and helped her look though her bags until we found it. And got her some water and after about 2o minutes, she was feeling human again. Poor girl. We told her NEXT time, to come wake us up IMMEDIATELY. She wasn't allowed to look by herself. Which, of course, implies that there WILL be a next time. ha!

We distracted her for the 20 minutes by making her laugh, and we must have woken up Amanda and Maggie, because soon they were knocking on the door and joined us in our beds. And we were all snuggled in and having a good time! This is the BEST group of friends, I'm telling ya!

Around 9am, we started to get ready, and by 10am our room was ready and packed to go downstairs to eat. But Amanda's room wasn't... So Kari and Kim and I headed down to the clothes gift shop to look around while Maggie and Amanda finished showering/getting ready. I found a hoodie that I wanted and a fridge magnet.

And by the time that eveyone got ready and met up, the breakfast buffet was closed. We'd missed it by 10 minutes. Kim and I were devastated. hehe. We were SO looking forward to that buffet... BIG TEARS :( So we headed to a different restaurant inside the hotel.

Luckily they still served breakfast. But now I couldn't decide what I wanted to eat. After what seemed like hours, Kim and I came up with a plan. I'd order French toast, and she'd order pancakes, and we'd asked for them to be split in half and put on 2 plates. Then we'd get the eggs and sausage and potatoes 'o brien and get that split too, and share it! Then it would be like a buffet. And the waitress was super nice about it :)






After breakfast, we hurried back upstairs to grab our bags before check out, and headed back downstairs. We had a guy take our group picture. Aren't we cute?!!!
Me and Maggie and Kari with our heads out the sun roof! Ha!~
Maggie and Kim and Kari posing by a Guitar Statue
We loaded up, and headed back to Amanda's parents house. It's only about 20 minutes away. Not too bad. Maybe only 10. Can't remember now. We got there, and started loading up the kids' stuff, and getting the SUV packed up again. We played with the dogs for a bit too. Aren't these the BIGGEST German shephards you've EVER seen???
Before we headed back to El Paso, we swung by Walmart one more time. We wanted to see if we could find a quick souvenir for the kids at home. A tee shirt maybe? Something New Mexico-y. Ha! Check out the chili in the cart! Only in New Mexico, right???
Look, it's my man!!!
I ended up going with a Coffee cup for Crystal for watching Eme, and a postcard and a pack of gum for each kid. Yeah, I know. I'm a big spender. ROFL! Shut up. It works, (And yeah, they LOVED it :)

And then, off we went. Amanda slept most of the way home. And Hannah too. Maggie slept a little bit of the way. I got to drive for about an hour. Kim and I did a Chinese Fire Drill at one point at an exit, which was kinda exciting. Her car drives really smoothly, let me tell you. hehe.

We chatted, and sang, and drove, and sang, and chatted, and drove.... And made plans for the coming week. We're going to a park one day. And to the movies with the kids. And to the movies with the grown ups. And to the zoo. And having Thanksgiving dinner with each other! It's gonna be a blast! Love ya girls!!!

And I made a deal with Jake and Kari's son, Justin. That if they cleaned my house (so it would be ready-ish for Thanksgiving) that I would pay them $30 each. And they agreed. I texted them a detailed list of jobs for each of the rooms I wanted cleaned, and they said they'd start cleaning at 2:00pm. Silly boys.

One more potty break at Las Cruses, and we were almost back in El Paso. Then back on post, and we dropped off Maggie first. Then Kari. Then Amanda. Then we picked up my kids at Kim's house, and she dropped us off at home. And my house was cleaner, but not as clean as it should be.

And I got a text from Kari saying that Brian had cooked dinner, and did we wanna come and eat. SURE! So we walked on over. And had some dinner. SUPER nice! Thanks, Brian! WE owe you one!!!

And then headed back home with my kids AND Jake and Justin. I made them write out the text (they had been cleaning from memory), and the cleaning improved. Funny how that works. Cause they could have a visual of what they needed to do.

I made Joe and Jim go to their room so they couldn't mess anything up. And I made Tom go to his. Eme came back home from Crystals, and I got to give Crystal her mug. She REALLY seemed to like it :)

And after another hour or so of cleaning, the older boys were done! They definitely earned their money. Good job, boys! Here's some photos of the finished product!



And I was very proud of Jake. Not for the cleaning skills, but for the social skills during the process. He was laughing and telling jokes and interacting with Justin the whole time. And being social. And seeming to enjoy it. Not being "depressed". I didn't recognize that he seemed that way before. I think the meds are taking effect. Is it too early for that?

Jake asked if he could spend the night at Justin's house, and I said if it was ok with his parents, it was ok with me. And it was, so it was. So off he and Justin went after they got paid. Happy as clams :)

Jim and Joe took baths, and went to bed. And Eme and Tom were already upstairs getting ready for Bed. I told Tom to clean his room, and his favorite way to get out of that it to pretend to be tired. Nice one, Tom.

And I sat down to blog. Double day blog. Which is why I started this at 8 or 9, and it's now almost midnight. Dangit. I'm super sleepy. I'm gonna sleep in in the morning.

We're going to "Dragon Park" as Crystal calls it, tomorrow. Should be a fabulous time! Now I just need to think of a way to keep my house clean from all of these little messy children! hehe :)


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I super duper love this one, Sharon! All those circles, and those colors are fab!!! Thanks for that layout, my darling dear!!!