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Well, I'd blog more, but I'm battling a TERRIBLE migraine. I'm about ready to get my monthly visitor, and CPT and I had a lovely go around, so I'm sure that those were some contributing factors to the fun that is a migraine. Anyway, not much exciting today.
We slept in, I didn't hike with the girls. CPT and I went to lunch at El Taco tote at noon, we drove on over to McKelligon canyon and bought the yearly park pass so we could hike when we wanted, hiked for about 30 minutes, then headed back to the bus to get the kids. And fought for the rest of the day. We were kinda only 1/2 fighting early in the day. Yeah, it was a real winner of a day... Yesterday was a good-ish one, though. Does that count? Sigh.
And it was all over cleaning. And how to keep cars/Suburbans clean. Do YOU have a clean vehicle? And if not, does it make your significant other upset??? Sigh. Anyway, I've gotta go and try to get some Miche stuff figured out for my FIRST ever party tomorrow at noon, and my head won't let me. Wish me luck. CPT and Tom and Jake are at the shoe store looking for Hiking boots, and the little 3 are already in bed. It's 8:oopm. I'm not too far behind them. This migraine is kicking my bed. Ambien may be my BFF tonight :)
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3 comments:
Thank you so much for this post. I want to let you know that I posted a link to your blog in CBH Digital Scrapbooking Freebies, under the Page 6 post on Feb. 24, 2012. Thanks again.
Hello Bethany! I have been 'silently' following your blog for some time. I am truly envious of your ability to be so transparent. And I am more amazed at the amount of energy you have and how many things you manage to squeeze into a day. You are one very busy person. I read your post yesterday and was so pleased about your day together after you and CPT came out of your therapy session. You mentioned working on your love languages together .. . and then today you talked about your "words" over keeping cars clean. Bethany - a clean car means a lot to CPT - take it from someone who is almost 62 and married 38 years this year - if you quietly decided that you were going to work with your kids to do all you could to keep the cars clean as your "gift" to CPT - your "love language" gift to him - it would revolutionize a few things. Forget whose fault it is, bury any pride that might be in the way and step out in faith that you will do this. Sweetie, most men never vocalize what they think is wrong - your lover just did. Give him this, and trust me, there will be amazing results. Hugs to you, my dear. You have a beautiful family and a big job. And you do it all so well. I will be praying for you!
The CPT has been in what I assume is a war zone.He's been away for a year.He's not going to come home & be the same man that left.It has got to be so hard for these men & women to come home and their spouses and family expecting them to take right up where they were when they left.
Yes you held down the fort at home while he was gone & it was hard but CPT had a even harder job in less privileged conditions than you.
Do the CPT and your self a favor:urge him to get help from a professional who deals with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.It's not going away.He's not being a jerk & nothing you do to please him is going to work until he gets that help he needs.
You wouldn't put a band aid on a leg that needs amputating.
I wish you both well.
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