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Friday, May 13, 2011

Mine's Bigger Than Yours

Silly Blogger! It wasn't working last night. So I couldn't blog. So I couldn't do any work. Hmpf! I did get my store loaded, though. Click HERE to go to my store to see my new releases :)

LinkI'll come back and blog later. But for now, you can just TRY and guess what I did all day long from my pictures. ROFL!

OK, I'm back. Yeah, this is why I don't like blogging the next day. Hmpf. I forget what I did. hehe.

So I got up in the morning, got the kids to the bus, got Jim up, and took him to child care. Then swung by the house, got ready, picked up Kari, and Amanda, and we 3 headed to Pilates. Never did it before, but it sounded good. hehe. The teacher was a German lady, and yeah, I had the HARDEST time understanding her.

But I enjoyed the class. I'm feeling the burn now. hehe. Here's some pictures from the class. I totally thought these looked like steering wheels.

We headed back home, I dropped off the girls at their houses, grabbed Jim from childcare, got him to the bus, and got to go and play with Terra. We needed supplies for our hats for lunch on Friday :)

We drove to the East Side, and had lunch at The Corner Bakery. OMHeavens, it was delicious!

I had 1/2 a club Panini and a Cesear Salad. Yeah, probably should have gone with something more healthy. Come to find out, it was gonna be a blow out food day anyway, so I guess it was fine...

Terra got the cheesecake, and it tasted like Refrigerator, so she sent it back, and got this brownie instead. I had a little nibble, and it was yummy :)

Next stop, Hobby Lobby. OMHeavens, they have some GREAT stuff there. I found some FABULOUS stuff for my hat! I was pretty excited.

I thought this looked like a crown. hehe.
Here's the twins
Next stop, Walmart. Jake needed new underclothes. Dang, underclothes are expensive, you know. hehe. I was pretty excited when I saw this, though. I'll wait for a year or so until it comes down to $20.

So I made my way to the mens underclothes section, and here's what I found......But not really what i was looking for for my 5'8", 205 lb 13 year old.... hehe.

He got new boxer briefs, new socks, and new white undershirts.
And I got hair color and apples. Because my gray is HORRIBLE... hehe.

Terra had a free coupon for Chik Fil A for a salad, so we picked one up for her for dinner, and she got me a DDP. Thanks, my dear!
She dropped me off at my house, and I started working on my hat. I wanted to use this white one. But I didn't really like it when it all got together.
So I tried the black one instead. MUCH better!

But yeah, the gray has GOT to go. I was supposed to do it Thursday night, but it didn't happen...
I got Jim from the bus (wearing my hat to show the girls - ha!), and headed back home. I made Homemade carmel corn for the kids. It was SUPER yummy.

I popped up 2 batches of air pop corn in the popper, and put it in a paper bag. I melted 1 stick of margarine (1/2 cup), 1 cup of brown sugar, 1/4 cup of caro syrup, 1 tsp of vanilla, and 1/4 tsp of salt. When it was all combined and melted, I added 1/2 tsp of baking soda, and it got big and puffy.

JAke was home from school by then, and I had him hold the paper bag, and shake it as I poured in the caramel sauce. We shook it really good, and put it in the microwave (in the bag) for 1 minute. Then shook it again. Then in the microwave for another minute. Then shook it. Then laid it on the cookie sheet to cool. Tasty, huh?
We bagged the caramel corn up in brown lunch sacks, and got ready for the ice rink. The 3 neighbor boys wanted to come too, so I arranged for Amanda to take one of my so that we all fit in the truck. Me and 7 kids. 8 total. Crazy, huh? hehe.

We drove to the rink, and the kids got to skate for an hour. Amanda and Terra and Amanda's grandma and I hung out for the hour, then all headed home.

Jake wanted to play at the neighbors house, so I told him that AFTER his chores, he could go. He and Zach had made plans to walk to the Shoppette for sodas, too. Should have been a fun evening for them. Should have...

So we get home, and I start on dinner. And Jake decided to finish off ALL the soda from the community bottle in the fridge. And apparently Joe got mad at that, and threw the empty bottle (plastic) at Jake's butt. And he got SO mad. He chased Joe around the house saying that he was gonna beat him up.

OK, so Joe shouldn't have thrown a plastic bottle at Jake's butt. I get that. BUT, chasing a 60 lb child around the house threatening to pummel him is SO not an appropriate response. SO not. But Jake didn't get that. And he just continued to escalate.

He went ON and ON about how I NEVER do anything when the kids be mean to him, so that's WHY he has to take matters into his own hands. I finally locked all the kids inside my room so that they could escape from his rantings. And I tried to cook dinner.

But he kept turning off the burners. And turning the others on. SO not safe. Hmpf. I tried to lock myself in the bedroom with the other kids, but Jake wouldn't let me in. Grrr. He just kept escalating and escalating. Apparently I NEVER do anything with him or the other kids. And I don't punish him the same as the other kids. He always gets in more trouble than them. What else did he say??

He kept saying, "You must hate me because you always try and take the fun out of everything, and make my life horrible". Sigh. I couldn't take it anymore, and left the house. He followed for a little bit, but he's not into exercise in the least, so he headed back home. I sat at the park for about 10 minutes, then came back home.

He was in his room, watching a movie. He'd found a cable to connect the DVD player to the TV. Crap. Thinking that I was being SO tricky, I went to the garage and turned off the braker to his room. And went back to cooking. Yeah, that SO backfired on me. He figured out what I did, and turned off the power to my bedroom, where the other kids were playing. They didn't wanna be locked in a dark room. Crap.

And, he figured out how to turn off the power to the kitchen. So I couldn't put the casserole in the oven. Double crap. But, on the plus side, while he was in the garage, I managed to go into his room and take the cable. So no more TV for him.

Eventually, I got so frustrated, that I loaded up all the kids (minus him), and headed away. We were going out for dinner! Cici's pizza is all you can eat, and cheap. Not good, I'll admit, but cheap. The other kids were excited!
Where else can you get MacNCheese pizza?
Joe ate like there was NO tomorrow. That child only eats every few days, I think. hehe. He even smuggled a piece of pizza out of the restaurant. LOL!
We got home, and Jake was sitting on the couch with a portable DVD player, watching a movie. WHAAAAT? I was pissed. I really was. I took ALL The extra electroncis in the house, and stashed it in the locking shed outside. TV's, CD's, CD players, everything. Now there's NO way for him to get access to ANYTHING. And I added another key to the chain around my neck. Great...

I sent the kids to bed, and headed to my room. And realized that I'd grown out of ALL my pants. I was SO mad. I started taking clothes out of my closet and putting them in a box. And I was SO angry. But 1/2 way through the closet, I realized that it wasn't a good solution.

So, I put on my exercise clothes, and headed out on a walk. And SUPER fast power walk. Because I was mad. I had tears streaming down my face, and was pumping my arms as fast as I could. But really, it made me feel a LOT better. I was more cooled off by the time I got home.

He was in his room, and I went in mine, and locked the door. I was still mad at him, and didn't wanna interact. I need to work on my loving feelings, I guess...

Anyway, I sat down to load my store, and get all those details taken care of. Then, at 10:30pm, started to blog. Crap. Blogger was down. I couldn't get on. Oh well, no blogging, I guess. I figured that I'd come back sometime on Friday and fix it...

I took a shower, and watched an episode of Flash Forward, then headed to bed. And slept well. That's good.

So, there's my missed day. hehe.

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Ha! Great one, Sharon :)



Sandy_in_MD said...

Love the hat, Bethany. I am sorry that Jake had a bad day - I hope his doctor can guide you to a program to help him learn how to manage his anger. Sending big hugs your way and I hope today is a better day.

Thanks for the fun WA.

Breeoxd said...

I wish Brent were coming home sooner- I bet Jake wont act that rough when his Dad's there to back you up. So uncool! Glad the younger kids got mac n cheese pizza out of it tho! Im totally ripping off that creation next fat food day lol
Hugs, hoping for an easier day.

CBH said...

Thank you so much for this post. I want to let you know that I posted a link to your blog in CBH Digital Scrapbooking Freebies, under the Page 14 post on May. 14, 2011. Thanks again.

Marilou said...

Lovin' the hats!! Thank you for the sentiment!

deb said...

This word art cracks me up. I pray that something gives with Jake soon.